BONDAGE - USING RESTRAINTS<

<First again a reminder that this is based around EROTIC BONDAGE and our restrictions are only leather handcuffs,leather leg cuffs,blindfold, leg-spreader and ROPE can be used.

Second the reminder. You should only 'play' with partners you TRUST; a SAFEWORD is advisable and no DAMAGING pain is inflicted. (handspanking,strap and cane are ,of course, part of your armoury) and the 'pain' these cause are part of the "pain and pleasure" - "pleasure and pain" I write about in my How to Spank pages.

Thirdthis is the areas to avoid using any instruments on. The most important area to avoid is the VERY top of the buttocks - where it meets the spine. This is DANGEROUS in CAPITAL LETTERS. It is the' coccyx' which is a small triangular bone at the base of the spine and permanent damage can be caused if you hit somebody there. Thighs and calves; neck and head, are other examples of dangerous areas.which cause heavy bruising and can also be dangerous. Muscle areas are also prone to bruise.

A couple of final points before I launch into some Bondage. Here I tend to use a man as the 'top' or 'dom' and the lady as the 'bottom' or 'sub'. This is becase I use my own experiences mainly, however, please remember that everythcan be scrambled withman - sub and woman -top; take it in turns to be the 'dom' There is not, and cannot be, a 'right' partnership. Which is which depends on YOU! Also I enjoy 'playing with a lady' of which Bondage is a part. The real aficionados will spend hours getting the right rope knots into place, the right positioning, until eventually it has become a ritual and lost the spontonaity which for me is the please of all aspects of sexual pleasure!