My first venture came as I found that regular erotic spanking visitors challenged themselves to go farther than just lying across my lap and being spanked as their clothes were removed. The first stages were the usual handspanking across the lap, as shown in my picture, with the lady gradually being undressed until she is finally naked across my lap. One of my first lady visitors commented that when she came she had no idea that she would finish up naked but she had enjoyed every minute. She also discovered that an HOUR had passed! At this point nearly all had handed their body over to me and, with their legs parting either involuntarily, or though choice.

As I said above she had lost any inhibitions and was willing to trust me to ensure she had an erotic experience. By the third or fourth visit ladies frequently wanted MORE!

I started by introducing the leg-spreaders. This is a metal rod about 21 inches long with straps for the ankles at each end. Once attached this allows the lady no flexibility in controlling her bum and forces her to keep her legs well spread. Now she is vulnerable!

I bent her over the back of a chair and, using rope or straps fastened her wrists to the seat. She was now completely under my control.

This created an erotic charge in the subject as she had now handed her body over to me without any opportunity of stopping me (except the' safe' word) and meant that any sexual 'play' was completely under my control. However remember that at anytime if she had used her 'SAFEWORD' I would have stopped immediately! That is what trust is all about.

I stood behind her so that she could not see me and then began began by stroking and massaging her bottom. This was already red from the earlier handspanking and the lady was very receptive to this treatment. I started spanking with my hand while at the same time parting her bum cheeks and running my fingers up and down the bum crack.. I soon touched her pussy and always received a positive reaction as I gently rubbed the wet warmth of the vaginal lips. More hand spanking aroused her more and now it was time to test the bottom farther. I took up a lightweight strap and, sataning at her side broght it down "S P L A T T ! !"across both cheeks. Usually there was a gasp of breath but no protest..

"S P L A T T ! !", S P L A T T ! !" I continued this for several minutes playing and spanking. all the time making sure that the strap, and my fingers, found their target. This was usually enough to bring her to a climax and trigger an orgasm.

This was as far as I would go on the first session because by now I knew that the lady was receptive to me and would return home thinking about what had happened and how the 'pleasure and pain' had mixed so brilliantly. She was now preparing in her own mind when she could next visit!