Spanking Professional - My Background

My name is David and I live in England.

For twenty years I have been a Disciplinarian involved in dealing out corporal punishment to ladies - spanking - on a consensual basis involving no sex. To find out more about my spanking background go to My Spanking Background.

The advent of the Internet enabled me to offer my services in a new medium so I have produced this website to help spankers and spankees.I have now retired from the 'fray' myself but hope that these pages will help others> will also be discussing my own method of working with ladies I do know that they have a great effect because of the number of emails and telephone calls I receive asking for advice, or in earlier days, wanting to come and experience what I could offer.

The whole exercise is meant to be fun so why not join in. When I started twenty years ago spanking was a 'non-sexual' adventure and the ladies who visited professional spankers as well as the underground spanking films were committed totally to the spanking.

Gradually the 'scene' has changed and besides films now including both spanking, foreplay and sex, many ladies have become more uninhibited. Although not all, many of my Spanking Stories do contain much that I have been involved in are associated with in some way..

How it all Began
My own initiation was was at a spanking club in London. Ienjoyed the experience but soon found that 'group spanking' with three paid spankees and half a dozen men following a scenario where the girls were either nurses who stole drugs, girls who stole money and girls .....well you know. I arranged with one of the girls to have private one-2-one sessions and soon with her experience I found that although not a 'bottom' myself I wanted explore both sides of the equation. I continued visiting for nearly two years and suffered and learned mch about ladies spanking needs.. Then this website started and, like Topsy , she grew and GREW until now it is recognised as the PREMIER website for SPANKEES and SPANKERS.

It was not long before I received requests from ladies to visit for a spanking and I rapidly built up a wide clientele. I restricted myself to ladies over 25 years as, experience had shown, that the bottom was not fully developed and soon it was clear that the major portion of my work would be with ladies from age 45 -70+. These had now grown and matured, many had husbands who were too busy to bother with them and, most importanly, they wanted to explore their more sensual and erotic feelings. When they saw my early examples this stimulated them even more to contact me.

When I started I found that there were many ladies who wanted to try corporal punishment but, for various reasons, mainly their inability to find a confidential service, had given up. Once I was introduced to them and had discussed their wants their interest was re-aroused.

Warnings
Before continuing I need to make two warnings.

* Be VERY careful of offers advertised on the internet in 'Personals'. These are often made by men who are inexperienced or just looking for 'sex with a thrill'. A brief example may help.

I saw a lady who had found just this experience. She had answered an advertisment, gone to a hotel room with a man for a spanking. He had caned her anhurt her bottom and thighs badly. When he finished and found her crying he threw down the cane and apologised saying that he had never spanked anybody before and would never do it again as he had been fightened at the way it took him over.

The lady who had previously enjoyed being spanked came to me and it took several sessions to regain her confidence and provide the erotic pleasure she craved.

Why were they interested?

There were various reasons including:
They had been spanked as a child when they did wrong and now needed the security of this form of punishment when they do something they consider wrong as an adult. Failure to give up smoking, speeding in the car are two examples.

They were senior professionals who had the ability to hire and fire but could not be called to account when punishing juniors. This was their way of assuaging their guilt when they felt they had been unjust. For this group it is PUNISHMENT they require - although even this can become erotic.

They had never been smacked on the bottom or punished with a slipper, strap or cane but wanted to try the experience.

They knew they were submissive but had never had the chance to test this side of themselves.

They wanted to ask their partner to spank them but thought it would be a good idea to undergo the practice in 'cold blood' before raising the question.

They had experimented when younger and enjoyed it but now wanted to extend their experience beyond hand-spanking and the paddle - possibly to the strap and eventually the cane.

Some clients enjoy "role-play" as part of their experience. There is more about this in our What Happens pages.

Why not send me an email and I will send you my mobile telephone number so that we can discuss your wishes further. Remember everything is confidential and done with discretion. It is also always within the limits of the client whose wishes are paramount.