How to Contact Me for Spanking

An Invitation to Ladies needing a Spanking Whether you are a novice or experienced you should visit me for a session. All visits are PRIVATE and CONFIDENTIAL. If you click on the picture of a BOTTOM on the left you will be taken to the special page which explains what happens. As one lady wrote "I’ve enjoyed both of my visits to you, especially the last one and, if you are available this Sunday or next I would really like to come over..........What I feel I need most at the moment is the spanking and maybe along the lines of a long (but not necessarily hard) punishment. I think the length of the punishment and feeling you are in control (by what you say and make me do) is probably more important for me than the hardness of the punishment.................... I enjoyed the more intimate touching last time we met and would be more than happy for this to happen again, if you are. It had been a couple of years since I was last touched in that way and it surprised me how different my orgasms were. In some ways they were less intense than they use to be, but in some ways more enjoyable. Read my pages on "Sensuous and Erotic Spanking" and "Punishment Spanking Examples" I have added a special story MURIEL is the TRUE story of a lady who visits me regularly and spends the weekend here. The weekend offers lots and lots of spanking and play and works so well that she returns from her European home regularly. If you are interested the call me to arrange a visit for one,two or three days and nights. CLICK on MURIEL to read the story CALL 07854 153 499 or send an email to The Disciplinarian (ladies or couples only please) NOTE Because ladies, if they have a long journey or come from overseas, are finding it difficult to pay a visit within a day we can now offer overnight accommodation in a single room. Ask about this when you contact me.

Why be spanked?

For many ladies and gentlemen there is a feeling of guilt over something they have done in their lives and for which they have not been found out. These people often harbour this guilt feeling until they can purge it in someway. Corporal punishment can often be the catharsis for them. It finally allows them to put the problem behind them having accepted punishment.

Other clients find that they enjoy the experience of watching their spouse being spanked as it enhances their love life by stimulating their erotic feelings and thus improves their sex drive. Yet others enjoy the spanking for its own sake as a stimulus or a relaxing experience. You will find all types in my Spanking Examples pages.

For some ladies, particularly when they have reached their mid-thirties or maybe after the menopause, it is an opportunity to explore their own sexuality. They find themselves stimulated by the stories where pain and pleasure are mixed. This is a chance to experience spanking on a one off basis and discover whether it satisfies their needs. If they do not enjoy it then no harm is done and, if it does, there is the chance to go deeper into spanking and the concomittant pleasures.

What happens if I Contact You

Let me stress that everything between us is confidential. I like to discuss your wishes on the telephone first and ascertain what you require. On the next page of the site I will explain some of the possible options and scenarios. Everything must be agreed between me and the spankee or "bottom" in advance. Some people worry about the telephone. To make sure that it is confidential I have an 'unlisted' mobile number which the potential client is given. They are invited to call this number using 141 - call-barring - on their own telphone so that I have no idea from where they are calling. Only then do we begin to arrange to meet.

Who do you Spank?

I work ONLY with ladies and couples.

Making Contact

As I said in earlier pages I am a Spanker and am willing to help and advise any potential clients who would like to get in touch with me.

There is no obligation. I am based in East Anglia and no longer travel. All of my clients are either ladies or couples. I do not work with SINGLE men.

Everything is TOTALLY confidential and at no time are your details passed on to anybody else. All 'true' stories are cleared with the participant before being used and "the name is changed to protect the participant".

What you should do:

• Send me an E-Mail with your questions

• I will reply by email immediately with an answer

• You then contact my mobile telephone number to discuss the proposal. This allows for anonymity on both sides until details of a meeting have been agreed

• Arrange to visit me.

• Make the visit!

I no longer offer 'group spanking classes' as experience has shown that to get two couples available at the same time on the same day is impossible. All sessions are now individuals or couples only SPANKING COURSES link.

Everything I do is within the limits of the client and at no time will I get involved in vicious"punishment flogging" - (punishment spanking is not the same thing) - as some SMs request. They have a different agenda to the Spanker.